I don’t go to movies very much anymore but I recently went down to the Landmark Theatre on E Houston Street to see the British-made film called ‘Skin’. Bizarre title, I know, but based on a true story. It’s about a mixed race girl born to a (white) Afrikaner couple in 1950’s apartheid South Africa. Her parents apparently had some black ancestry in their blood but had no idea about this until Sandra was born. (A brother who followed her was similarly mixed race in appearance.) Her parents accepted her as their’s (which she was) and raised her in a loving home, but when she went to join her older brother at a ‘whites only’ boarding school, she was eventually kicked out because she wasn’t white. Remember this was in the days when under apartheid it was against the law for whites and non-whites to live together under the same roof! Her parents fought this which meant appearing before a court to determine Sandra’s race.
I don’t want to give too much of the story away since I would highly recommend it. It’s not yet available here on DVD but is available through www.amazon.co.uk . It raises huge questions about race and identity, shows how ridiculous it is to try to legalize racial differences and at the same times gives incredible insights into the human heart. Particularly tragic is the broken relationship Sandra and her father experience, and how his inability to forgive her for the choices she makes ultimately destroys him. It’s a window into the destruction that unforgiveness breeds, and a sobering reminder for our own situations.
During the film credits at the end, we learn that the real Sandra Laing is still alive and living in a now “free” South Africa. Despite a life that was clearly very painful with more than it’s share of tragedies, she managed to survive the turbulence and has not just children but grandchildren! A beautiful reminder of God’s grace and redemption.